January 5, 2010

To Accomplish, January 2010

I know I haven’t gone over my goals from December, nor have I posted my 2010 goals yet.  Rest assured that they are both coming!  I have a good idea of what I want to do in 2010, it’s just a matter of typing it out.  December’s wrap-up will have to wait until I’ve figured out all the various gift expenses I owe or am owed by others.

1. Reconcile all bank accounts. 
This means balancing the books on those gifts!  Since there’s a discrepancy in my 2009 money tracking, I’m going to wipe the slate clean for 2010, but that means I need to get rid of all of my 2009 leftovers.

2. Don’t spend any money on new clothes.
Since I really don’t have as much money to play with this year, I am going to try to go until April without buying new clothes.  I was thinking of allowing myself to buy accesories – belts and whatnot – and maybe a new winter coat, but nothing else until my birthday.

You know what makes this goal hard?  The fact that almost all of my clothes currently smell like smoke.

3. Run at least 10 miles per week.
For some reason, Chad decided that signing us up for a 10 mile race in April would be a good idea.  Since the race cost almost $40 for each of us, we really have no other option than actually running it.  I really don’t like running, so I’m starting out small and I’m going to work my way up to running more.

4. Do yoga 3 times per week.
This shouldn’t be too hard to meet.  I have a class at work 2x per week, so it’s up to me to find one extra day to do some of the yoga DVDs I bought for Christmas vacation.  This is no great hardship – I’m finding that I really like doing yoga!

5. Get our apartment livable again.
It’s looking like our insurance covers a lot of what we’ll need to do.  We’re getting our clothes sent out to be cleaned, but there’s still the matter of our couch cushions and mattress.  By February, I hope to have forgotten that there was ever a fire.

6. Combine bank accounts.
We’re current in the process of combining our savings accounts.  This is mostly because it’s easier than changing my name with ING – they make you mail stuff in, and I don’t think I’m organized enough to remember to do that.  Not to mention that it really will be easier to know how far along we are in savings if we decide to buy a house, or if Chad decides to go back to school full-time.

Stay tuned – my 2010 goals are coming!

January 4, 2010

My Favorite Posts of 2009

So, I know you’re supposed to do a recap before the year actually ends, but I don’t care.

I like to read back over my past posts. Once I distance myself from them as having been written by me, I find that I’m a better judge of my own writing. I figure out where I get too convoluted, where my jokes fall flat, where I tend to be too bitchy, etc. I also try to look at which posts I love – the ones that make me laugh out loud, or the ones I worked hardest on, or the ones I think had the freshest angle – and which ones were most popular. They’re almost never the same thing.

Top 5 Posts of 2009

Using Excel: Part 1 – Tracking Spending. That this post is popular isn’t a surprise; most of the traffic is from people searching through google. Honestly, though, I hate this post. I think it’s awful.

More thoughts on frugal weddings. I have no idea why this one is popular – I guess because so many people google “frugal weddings.” Ha! That’s totally not what they’re getting!

Wedding P0rn. Because FB linked to me! I have no strong feelings about this post, except that I’m embarassed to be such a girl.

I’m not worried about being debt free. Finally, my readers and I agree!

It’s OK to spend money! Of course it is! This is one of those posts where I probably sound too bitchy. Also, did anyone notice that sometimes the comments on TSD are getting really mean? Like, beyond, “I disagree what you said here,” mean?

My Favorite Posts of 2009

Breathe in, breathe out. Seriously, I should tape this around my credit card – or tattoo it on my hand or something.

In Defense of Television. I love my TV. So much.

10 Frugal Things I’m Not Doing For My Wedding. This is one of my favorites because I think it does contain good advice, but it also goes into why it’s OK to not do those things. People always brag about how their sister did all the cooking for their wedding, or how their designer friend hand-sewed their dress. As though we all have gourmet chefs for sisters, or feel entitled to our friends’ services without paying for them.

Make meaningful choices! God, I’m such a jerk.

It’s not a contest. Another post that should be tattooed somewhere on my body so I can read it and remember.

The Psychology of Marketing Being Conned. I stayed up late one night to finish this because I thought it was so neat. Someone else beat me to the punch, but I still think this is one of my better non-bitchy posts.

Why am I maxing out my 401K? This was a counter-argument to Punch Debt in the Face’s decision to scale back contributions. It’s one of my favorites because I actually thought through a goal I’d had for years and why I set that goal. I doubt it will ever be popular, but it was a valuable post for me to make.

January 4, 2010

We don’t need no water…

Sorry for the lack of communication, we had a fire in our apartment building and have been dealing with the aftermath.

As a word of advice, avoid fire during the holiday season. No one – the repairmen, our insurance agents, even our apartment managers – was working!

We were lucky – nothing but smoke damage and our internet is out. Luckily we even have renter’s insurance.

I’m still going to try to get some of my year-end posts up this week, so keep an eye out!

December 17, 2009

Meet Blippy

One of the funniest things about my blog name is that I am decidedly not paranoid.  I eat food off the floor, sometimes I don’t wash fruit before eating it, and I tend to reject every conspiracy theory that comes my way (especially the ones that go something like, “The X lobby has convinced the government to DOOM US ALL!” There is no conspiracy to keep organic food down, or to make sure we keep cooking our food, or to keep Boise State football out of the National Championship.  (By the way, see how long ago that Zen Habits post was written? I have wanted to link to that and mock it for almost a year now. The comments are pure gold.))

I digress.

I say this because there is a new service that went into private beta last Friday called Blippy.  Yes, if you’ve ever felt like Facebook, Twitter, MySpace, LinkedIn, etc. didn’t share quite enough of your personal information with random people on the internet, you now have Blippy!

With the tagline “What are your friends buying?” Blippy tracks all of the purchases you make on a single credit card and broadcasts them, much like a Twitter of personal spending (they even have a little “b” as their logo that is similar to the font and color of Twitter’s little “t”).  If you use your credit card at an online retailer like Apple or Amazon, the specifics of your purchase – what was bought and the price paid – is also shared.  Unlike Twitter, this is passive sharing – you just spend some money, and Blippy does the rest.

To tell you the truth, I wish I had thought of this idea.  I think it will probably be huge (I think Facebook’s Beacon might have been huge too if there hadn’t been that big blowup over opting out instead of opting in).  It also sort of scares the crap out of me.

In a world where Facebook pitches me (but not Chad!)  wedding-themed weight loss plans, it feels like I don’t have a lot of privacy.  Usually I don’t mind so much; I put pictures of my face up on my blog, for crying out loud!   But this has ominous implications in marketing.  If you’re buying a StairMaster, vendors know you’re trying to lose weight, and you’re hit with a million emails for supplements and diet books and dumbell sets.  Some people see this personalization as a good thing.  I’m not so sure.

Another issue is that of location.  If Blippy broadcasts that you spent $3.50 on a latte at your local independent coffeehouse, everyone now knows that you’re at the coffeehouse.  If you stop to get gas while leaving your abusive spouse, he knows the route you’re taking.

And while I’m not paranoid, I do try to be careful with who sees my credit card information.  It’s an identity thiefs dream.  Hack the Blippy database, and you have not only the credit card numbers, but you also have spending habits.  Just buy a Playstation using the gamer’s card, get some gas with the traveling salesman’s card, go grocery shopping with the housewife’s card…  I bet there’s even information on Blippy about where you’re living.  If I’m in LA, I know not to use card numbers from Pittsburgh.  No need to tip off the fraud department too early.

I do see this as a useful tool for some people.  If you’re trying to pay down debt, it could be useful to have some accountability without exposing your whole credit card statement to the world. 

It could be useful for business accounts. A corporate assistant, filling out a boss’ expense report, needs to go no further than Blippy, and (s)he has the report filled out and sent off before the boss’ flight even lands.  Perhaps the boss could also add comments, such as, “Yes, this charge says ‘Target,’ but that’s because I stopped off and had a pretzel & soda while shopping on my business trip.  Totally counts as a business lunch.”

If you just paid $20 for a Snuggie at BBB and your friend knows they have the exact same thing at Walmart for $10, he can helpfully share that information.  Bam, you just saved $10 on your Snuggie.  Alternatively, maybe you always buy your milk at Vons, but you discover that someone else in your town is paying much less for it at Ralph’s.  The more you know! *shooting star*

 

The nicest thing about Blippy is that I can ignore it.  I don’t have to join Blippy, it’s not attached to my Facebook so that if I’m logged in and buying something, my embarassing purchase of all 4 Twilight books is shown to all of my friends.  I probably won’t joint Blippy.  It will be interesting to see if others do.

 

What about you?  Do you think this would be a product you’d use, or are you paranoidAsteroid about it?  More importantly, did the word Blippy seem to lose all meaning as you read this post, which is weird because Blippy isn’t even a real word?

December 17, 2009

Why am I maxing out my 401K?

I mentioned in my 2009 Review that I had come close to maxing out my 401K this year.  I plan to try to do the same next year. 

But a recent post at Punch Debt In The Face (it is worth clicking through just to see the picture at the top of the post) made me stop and consider why I wanted to max it out. It just.. has always been something I wanted to do, and I don’t know if I ever honestly believed I’d get there.

PDITF cut back his 401K contributions, with the reasoning that he wanted more money to plan for the short term & midterm future. After all, you can’t touch that money until you turn 59.5 so once it’s gone, it’s gone. He’s also maxing out his Roth IRA, which means he’s still contributing the recommended amount to retirement (about 15%).

It’s not like he’s going to be spending the money, either – his plan is to invest/save that extra money for the short term.

Quite frankly, it sounds like he has thought out his plan. And for a minute, it threw me for a loop. After all, didn’t I whine about how much lower my cash savings rate would be next year? Maybe I’ve been so fixated on this goal of maxing out all of my retirement funds that I never bothered to ponder the alternatives.

So I did. And I’m going to stick with my plan to max out my 401K next year, because…

1. I will be saving enough cash next year.
It’s going to come out to about 25% of my take-home pay. That’s double the suggested savings rate. It just doesn’t seem like “enough” to me because I’m used to saving so much more than that.

2. I’m saving for two.
Chad can’t contribute to a retirement account if he’s not working. (Although this is misleading, since if he was working, I’d probably have him max out his as well.)

3. I’m going to have to scale back contributions anyway.
If I keep contributions at 20%, I will put in too much money in 2010. So I’m still going to get a cash bump next year, and that’s not taking into account any raise I might earn.

4. That money is not locked up forever.
I can take a loan out of my 401K if I really need money. I know they preach against this. It’s borrowing from your future! If I’m overcontributing, though, I’m just evening things out. The other argument is that losing your job means you have to pay back the loan balance immediatly or face tax penalties. Because my company is awesome, they do not require you to pay back the loan right away if you’re fired – you continue on your normal schedule. 

5. I could use the tax break.
Especially if Chad does find a job, lowering our taxable income could keep us within Roth IRA limits for a year or two extra.

6. I don’t know what I’ll want to do in my 30s, my 40s, my 50s.
That 15% contribution usually assumes you’ll be working right up until retirement. What if I decide to retire early at 45? I’d miss those last few catch up years. I sometimes toy with moving to a small town and becoming a teacher, but I could only handle that big of a pay cut if I’ve planned ahead. Or, if I do need more cash when I’m 40, I can scale back contributions then. Contributing now, while I can afford it, gives me more flexibility later.

(The most interesting part of #6 is that this is one of the same reasons PDITF decided to scale back. We forsee the same issues – what if I want/need more money before retirement? – but have chosen completely opposing strategies to handle it.)

7. You don’t get to make it up.
When I’m 30 and am positively rolling in it (a girl can dream!), I won’t be able to tell the IRS, “Look, I gave $10,000 less than the max when I was 25. Let me just sneak that in there now!”

8. Contributing now gives me the biggest bang for my compound interest bucks.
There was a blog post a year or two ago where someone did the math and said that a 26-year-old who maxed out his/her retirement accounts just that year would have a million dollars at age 65. Now, I might want to retire earlier than that, and I think the annualize growth on that was a bit high (12%), but the principal stands. To combat the uncertainties (will the market really return 12%? What if I want to retire at 55?), I’ll keep my contributions high for as long as I can.

9. No one ever regrets saving too much for retirement.
As long as I’m enjoying my life, I won’t be on my death bed thinking about how I should have spent more money. (Although, come to think of it, a 1% contribution reduction could get me a Coach purse or something. WAIT I NEED TO START OVER!)

Ramit had a survey where 62% of people in their 40s wished they’d saved more for retirement. I don’t want to be one of them.

10. If I die before I turn 60, I can leave that money to my loved ones.
Here again, the fact that I’m still enjoying my life means that even if I die before getting to use any of this money, I won’t regret it. And I’ll be able to leave it to my (hypothetical) children, to my sisters, to Chad, to my parents, my cousins. And that might be a better use than me finally buying some Marc Jacobs when I retire.

What do you think? Are you changing your contributions? Why?

Also, is it just me, or have I been doing a lot of list-based posts lately?

December 15, 2009

2009 in Review

I checked out my list of 2009 Goals a few weeks ago to get ready to report on my accomplishments and progress.  I had forgotten about some of them!

Financially, this was a good year.  Personally, it was a year of big changes and some major milestones.  I didn’t accomplish a lot of the smaller things I wanted to, but ultimately, I think that’s OK.  I don’t think I could have predicted the whirlwind of activity that absorbed much of the middle of the year.

2009 Goals

Finances

1. Max out my Roth IRA.
I shoved in the last $2000 a few weeks ago, but I have a confession to make about my Roth.

At the beginning of 2008 (January & February), I put in the whole $5K into my Fidelity account.  By the end of the year, my account was down by more than that much. 

This year, I put in a couple lump sums, but never invested them because I didn’t know if I could handle losing more.  I let the fear get the better of me, and as such, my Roth has not rebounded the way my 401K has, since I didn’t invest while the market was down.

Next year, I’ll just add in a certain amount per month, no matter how scary the market seems.  Emotional decisions are never good ones.

2. Save an additional $10,000.
I was able to put more than double this into savings, according to my current budget numbers.  Barring any excessive overspending in December, I’m on track to put $20K into cash savings (including a car fund).  This doesn’t take into account that I spent around $7,000 out of my wedding fund, but that fund came out of last years savings.  I don’t know how you’re supposed to track those sorts of “earmarked” funds. 

3. Earn the full match on my 401K contributions.
I actually came within $150 of maxing this out.  I did consider scaling my contribution back, but a lot of people here convinced me not to.  This was definitely the right decision: with Chad not working and thus not contributing to his own retirement savings, I was saving for 2.

4. Have directed savings sub-accounts.
Done.  I’m trying to decide how happy I am with the results.  It was nice that I didn’t see my savings shrink when I had large, planned expenditures, but now I have leftovers and have to ask hard questions about what I’m allowed to do with the money (you mean I can’t just spend it on clothes and shoes?).  Not to mention that ING now has a sub-account titled “Wedding” and I don’t know how to get rid of it or change its name.  With no other wedding in sight, it seems a little silly.

5. Have at least 6 no-spending-money-on-new-clothes/shoes/jewelry months.
I failed this so hard.  I only did 3.

6. Visit the tailor during my no-shopping months in order to transform some of my clothes to something I might wear more often.
Failed this too. 

7. Switch over to paperless for all my bills.
Done.  This was super-hard since…. I pretty much went online and clicked a few buttons.  Here’s to setting difficult goals!

Non-financial goals after the jump…

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December 11, 2009

Do Good To Do Worse?

Slate has a new article up this morning: Buy Local, Act Evil. A recent study has come out saying that people who chose “green” items in a simulated shopping experience were less likely to share money and were more likely to cheat afterwards. The article posits that by chosing something “good,” people feel free to cut themselves some slack in other areas.

Obviously, one study is hardly conclusive proof. I did, however, call attention to this same thing in my post about making meaningful choices.

In my post linked above, and on my Organics posts, people tend to say that even small steps are better than no steps, e.g. if you’re commuting 120 miles per day in a Prius, it’s better than doing it in a Hummer.

But what if that small step forward means you take a large step back?

What do you think? Does this article have merit, or is it just that bashing the local/organic food movement has become as trendy as the organic/local food movement was a few months ago?

December 10, 2009

Leftover Savings

I created several savings sub-accounts at the beginning of this year, for gifts, for the wedding, for the honeymoon, etc. Lots of these are cyclic – the honeymoon fund will just become a travel fund, I’ll still need to buy gifts next year. So that’s easy.

Now, my question is about the $700 left over in my wedding fund. Near the end, we just started cashflowing a lot of it, and once I wrote the $7,000 check to our venue, my half of the wedding costs was basically covered.

So what should I do with the extra money that’s left over? I’ve been making a list in my head.

  1. Put in back into savings. After all, that’s where the wedding fund came from, and it’s not exactly like we stayed under budget for the wedding.
  2. Blow most of it on one expensive item. Like a high-end winter coat, a pair of boots, a real leather purse (I have never owned one!), or some sexy Louboutins. I have trouble spending more than like $80 on any one item, so by saying that I have to spend most of it in one lump sum, that could let me get something I wouldn’t otherwise get.
  3. Shopping spree! Spend it all as I wish – probably on a bunch of mid-range retail items. (Or at Anthropologie, although their sales have been getting picked clean lately. It’s almost like the Banana Republic sales where nothing is left except size 00 and size 16.) It could also be used to pad my personal spending budget for next year.
  4. Donate it to charity. I haven’t donated since January, which was really when I donated an extra $1,000 for the tax deduction in 2008 and counted it against January’s budget.
  5. Use it as a “wardrobe rebuild” savings account. Every month I’d transfer the leftovers from my clothing allowance into this account, and eventually use it to replace everything in my closet. This doesn’t appeal to me very much as an option since about 60% of my closet is stuff I wear and like, and I could probably get by with just those items for a while. I don’t need a What Not To Wear cleanout.
  6. Use it to pay off debt. Even though I’m not really worried about that right now, it can’t be a bad thing to pay down the balance a little bit extra here and there.

And of course, combinations of any of these would be OK as well.

What do you think?

December 8, 2009

The Psychology of Marketing Being Conned

Every time I hear a story about someone falling prey to a 419 scam, whoever I’m with will sniff or roll their eyes. We like to believe that it’s all the result of being blinded by greed, that we could never fall for such a trick. We’ve all heard the stories of people sending tens or hundreds of thousands of dollars to people who promise that their money is coming. You’d think that after the first time the money transfer netted them nothing, they’d be smart enough to stop.

Someone at worked linked me to this report from the University of Cambridge, which delves into the psychological principles behind a successful con.

The report is based partially on information from a British reality television show, so perhaps the scientific rigor is not entirely there. Still, it’s a worthwhile read.  In addition to descriptions of common scams, there is a section on the behavioral patterns that con artists exploit based on a few basic principles. The original report focuses on how these principles relate to security, but I think that recognizing these patterns is an important part of not falling prey to them – especially since some of these tactics align with the marketing techniques used by retailers.

1. The Distraction Principle
Much like the misdirection used by magicians, a hustler relies on our tendancy to always focus on the most interesting or the seemingly most important things going on around us. The 419 scammers, asking for yet another thousand dollars from their mark, focus his attention on how small this amount is compared to the millions he’ll be getting soon.

This is why male enhancement drugs are still a popular item. Show a man a sexy blonde and he’ll be so busy thinking about (ahem) doing things with her that he won’t remember that most penis enlargement pills don’t work.

2. The Social Compliance Principle
We’re trained to trust authority, and it’s amazing how little proof one needs of this authority; for example, a badge or a uniform is usually proof enough that we’re dealing with law enforcement. This is why phishing scams work so well. Using the distraction principle in #1, the thiefs send an emailing saying there has been some fraud on our accounts. When we’re worried about that, it seems natural to click through the email. The email links to a page that looks just like the bank’s webpage, making us feel comfortable with entering the information.

This is why seedy diet pill companies (and let’s face it, also some legitimate companies like GNC) will put a doctor in their ads. Remember the car ad where popular financial advice gurus talked about the awesomeness of the cash back program as a sound financial investment? It’s stupid to trust anyone who’s getting paid to endorse a product to give an honest opinion of said product, but we do it all the time.

3. The Herd Principle

Even suspicious marks will let their guard down when everyone next to them appears to share the same risks. Safety in numbers? Not if they’re all conspiring against you.

Con artists often use accomplices, or shills, to give the mark a false sense of security. If we see someone else having success with CashJar (something I made up just now), we’re more inclined to try it ourselves. Even if CashJar is a scam and the “successful guy” is an anonymous blogger who is actually a shill.

The iPhone is only cool because everyone else wants one, too.

4. The Dishonesty Principle
Once we realize we’ve been conned, anything we’ve done of dubious legality makes us less likely to report it. In a 419 scam, the mark is attempting to do something illegal (money laundering), and thus feels he can’t go to the police for help.

The report references the movie Lock, Stock, and Two Smoking Barrels and a scam that one of the characters creates.  He places an ad for “male pleasure accessories” (sorry guys, I don’t want Google searches for sex toys coming to my blog!) in the classifieds section of gay magazines.  The checks can be made out to an innocuous sounding name, “Bobbie’s Bits.”  After cashing the checks, they send a letter apologizing because they couldn’t get the item in stock, and include a refund check.  The refund checks have an explicitly pornographic company name on them, ensuring that no one will want to be embarassed by depositing them.

5. The Deception Principle
All scams employ this principle. Things are not always what they seem, and any good scammer – or advertisement – will make us believe that something is what it seems. In a phishing scam, we’re familiar with the bank’s homepage and won’t question it’s authenticity unless something goes wrong.

The best example of this in marketing is with some cell phone that came out just after the iPhone. These phones were designed to sort of look like the iPhone and were marketed toward the same group of consumers, even though they didn’t have all of the capabilities that make the iPhone so popular.

6. The Need and Greed Principle
Of course, those people who roll their eyes at 419 victims are correct: there is definitely greed at play. I think most people feel that they need more money. If it’s not to cover staggering debts or medical bills, it’s just for the promise of comfort and security. The Prince’s inheritance just seems too good to be true.

Every advertisement appeals to our basics desires. Many of us want to be successful or attractive or cool. So an ad does all but scream, “THIS PRODUCT WILL MAKE YOU GET YOU LAID AND ALSO MONEY.”

7. The Time Principle
The more quickly we have to make a choice, the less reasoning we’ll use to make our decision. We act on impulse, usually according to predictable patterns.

This tactic is also used in marketing, and is the basis of one-day sales and coupon codes. It’s also why sites like Gilt.com are so popular – only 3 days per sale, and a lot of the good stuff gets scooped up before you can even read the email! You have to hurry to add things into your cart, and then you have 10 minutes to decide if you want to buy it before the cart expires.  The website reminds you that everything is up to 70% off, so it keeps your mind focused on what a great deal you’re getting (back to #1) and steers your decision toward the one that nets them a profit.

(I would add here that the authors forgot to mention the Sunk Cost Fallacy, as that is a big motivator in people continuing with scams. It dosn’t seem to fit in any of the categories listed above.)

Now, I don’t think that marketing is evil because it exploits our behaviors.  That’s silly, because everything preys on our emotions.  Films, television, books, they all try to evoke our feelings, and the more we feel, the more we enjoy watching or reading. 

However, just because I don’t think these techniques are evil doesn’t mean that we have to fall prey to them.  Recognizing our behaviors and the ways that an ad will play on our desires is the first step in not succumbing.

I’m still working on that one.

December 1, 2009

To Accomplish, December 2009

I can’t believe another year has gone by.  I still remember writing my goals at the beginning of this year, and stressing about how far away it all seemed – the wedding, finishing school, finding a new job.  Now the end is near, and it has occurred to me that I haven’t even really followed my goals as time has passed.  I guess that’s something I’ll have to think about when I work up my goals for 2010 – how to balance things I want to accomplish with the things I’ll remember to accomplish even without referencing the list on this blog.

But this isn’t about end-of-year goals.  This is about setting goals for December!

To Accomplish, December 2009

1. Save $3000.
This will be probably be my last big savings months for a while – until the first three-paycheck month in April 2010, or until Chad finds a job.  Gotta make the most of it!  Plus, if I can put away the $3000, I will hit the next big, round number for my yearly savings.

2. Spend less than $600 on gifts.
That’s all I have left in my gift fund, so if I go over, I seriously impede progress on goal #1.

3. Spend less than $100 on clothes.
I’m really hoping I can go without buying anything new, but it’s going to be really tempting.  It’s the end of the year, I worked hard this year, and really, my budget is going to be so strict next year so I should enjoy this while I can!

4. Go to every yoga class for the days I’m working.
I still haven’t figured out which days I’m taking off before Christmas, so I’ll just make the goal that if there’s a yoga class and I’m at work, I go to it.  Honestly, I enjoy the class so much that this isn’t really a hardship.  The only hard thing is remembering to bring in gym clothes!

5. Consolidate accounts.
I have some leftover savings accounts, so expect a post soon asking for opinions on what I should do with some of the straggling amounts of money left over.

6. Get my name changed with my banks.
Well there has to be one goal I’m sure I’ll fail!  No, but really, I have to do this.  I got carded and had to give an awkward explanation, “Well, here’s my current ID, but this is not going to match the name on the card because I just got married, so here’s my old ID from a different state.”  I’m sure the CSAs don’t really care, but I feel awkward having to explain.

7. Be completely 100% done with thank you notes by the 5th.
Because we can’t have thank you’s arriving with Christmas cards!

8. Check out 2009 goals, do the ones I can and write a wrap-up post.
Nothing like waiting until the last minute to get everything done!